Let me tell you a story about my younger self and my odd ways of thinking about love and relationships. (Like most women who confuse sex and love).
Back in the day, I used to think that my Vagina was some sort of magical bargaining tool that I could use to keep my partners engaged. Yeah, you heard me right, I thought that if I gave them what they wanted in the bedroom, they would stick around forever.
Wrong! No matter how much I tried to please them, they always found a way to cheat on me. And that’s when I realized that my idea of love was completely screwed up.
I thought that love was all about sex, but it wasn’t. Love was about understanding who you are and what your heart truly desires in a relationship. It’s not about manipulating your partner or trying to keep them interested by using your body.
Looking back, I can’t help but laugh at myself. I was so naive and clueless about what real love was all about. But hey, we all make mistakes, right? It’s a part of life and growing up.
Now I know that true connection comes from being honest and open with your partner. It’s about sharing your thoughts, feelings, and dreams with them. It’s about respecting each other’s boundaries and needs, and not trying to change them to fit your own desires.
So, if you’re out there thinking that sex is the key to a successful relationship, think again! Love is so much more than that. It’s about building a strong emotional bond with your partner, and that takes time, effort, and a lot of heart.
My advice to you is this: be true to yourself and what you want in a relationship. Don’t use your body as a bargaining tool, because that’s not love, that’s manipulation. Instead, focus on building a deep connection with your partner, based on honesty, trust, and mutual respect. And who knows, maybe you’ll find the true love you’ve been searching for all along!
I’m speaking to Women of all ages!